Phone sex

[saber101]

Okay so i recently realized I can't do phone convos. I'm pretty good in real life, and i can usually gain the interest of most women. But when i get their phone numbers, and it comes time to call them, i just suck. I can't keep a convo going. Especially when the first thing you ask is "whats up" and the chicks response is "nothing." Thats the worst. Its even more difficult when its a chick i met once at a party or something. Yesterday I called this one chick who liked me, and i ended the convo within a minute, because i just couldnt think of anything to say. I need some advice on getting better at this, and i just want to clarify that i DON'T want a guide to phone sex. I want a gf and ive had so many opportunities that went to shiit because i cant talk on the phone. HELP ME!!

 

[TheManlyMan]

Talk about sex. Jump for it. Its fun. Most people are insecure talking about sex, so get that on the table and talking will be a lot easier.

Tell her you wanna make a porno or something like that. I'm 3 for 1 on that one.

 

[Kiko-]

If she says nothing, then she's boring as hell and I don't see that worth going after.

Whatever floats down your boat.. As for talking about sex, not until you've established rapport. Most of the times it freaks 'em out and they end up calling you a pervert. (this is high school forum after all.)

Keep up to date with gossip and relate what she says to a broader subject till the point where it's easy for you to talk about what you want. Lead the convo, be an Alpha.

 

[eminence]

talk about where your going to go on your next date at, thats all the phone should be used for.

 

[ryannath]

For real..I called a girl one time...well, not girl, she was 26..anyway, and she said, "hello"....."hey, it's ryannath"...."oh hey ryannath, whats up"...."oh just thought , i'd call ya....can you meet me somewhere"...."sure".....then we arranged it...simple and lasted about 1 min.

 

[saber101]

For real..I called a girl one time...well, not girl, she was 26..anyway, and she said, "hello"....."hey, it's ryannath"...."oh hey ryannath, whats up"...."oh just thought , i'd call ya....can you meet me somewhere"...."sure".....then we arranged it...simple and lasted about 1 min.

ah yes. makes sense. what about for the girls that live out of town (ones that i can actually get ass from). should i just not be calling them?

 

[Kev07]

the phone is a bad way to have conversation with girls.

phone is good for a few things

1. dates and events, invitations whatever
2. girls using you as an emo tampon

I can keep a fairly good conversation going on the phone, just talking about what's happening, stories, etc. but that all depends on the girl. if she doesn't respond more and input her own stuff, you're sunk.