"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Phone sex field report -- she had a good-time - I just went along.

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I had sex with my girlfriend over the telephone (mutual masturbation). She was in a Hotel room, while I was in my bed.

She was virtually hugging and kissing me.

To make this kosher, we both agreed that we were married and were husband and wife and got married sometime ago (since it's all fantasy anything is allowed). Therefore, we did not have pre-maritial virtual sex.

I was vocalising various positions of my hands and she was also vocalizing.
She told me that she can only make love if she really feels it, exitement, love towards the person. I asked her if she's feeling it with me she said yes.

I asked if she was wet down there. She said she was about to ejaculate in two minutes. I encouraged her to use her hands to finish off.

Honestly -- I didn't feel anything. I don't know, maybe I'm an asexual after all. I was just experiencing that SHE was having a good time, while I was more like acting or going along with it, suprpized that any woman ever said those things to me or actually did that. In fact it almost didn't register.

I masturbated afterwards (when she hung up) pictured her, and tried to put a virtual from my end since I wasn't turned on enough during the virtual time with her -- but I did feel that she cared and there was a warmnes about this that is unlike any porn, or escort-masturbation fantasy. It didn't seem cheap at all because she loves me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sosuave is now officially the Blog of Luke.

Congratulations mods.
 

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Do we really need three simultaneous threads about your relationship with this woman?

Some stuff should be kept private.
 

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WHO IS THIS MAN?

There must be some fragment of sanity left in you or you wouldn't keep coming on these boards for a kicking; you need help. You know this, we know this, seek it out before it's too late. Besides, therapists are kind of a fashion accessory these days, it's cool to have one.
 

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Luke I order you to flog yourself to cleanse yourself of your sinful behavior

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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