"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I ran into an old friend from high school. We talked a bit about the old days (which were about a year ago...), but when I asked for her number, she said she never answered it because she was busy with work and school. She did give me her number, though, but I was wondering if what she said was a negative sign.

I know, I might be reading into it too much, but, just need someone else's view on it who isn't an *******. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well its really hard to know unless you call her. It does sound like low interest to me as you sense as well.

Nothing lost by calling though right?
 

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yeah nothing lost, give her a call and see if she'll join you for a drink. all the best mate
 

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I called her last night, but we're both pretty busy with work and school at the moment, so we couldn't make any plans. I'll probably call again in a week or so.
 

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Just call it alot, when she picks up say something like "I thought you said you never answer it?".
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I called her last night, but we're both pretty busy with work and school at the moment, so we couldn't make any plans.
You're not listening to your GUT FEELING.

You listened to your gut feeling when you were trying to set something up with this girl. She was giving you hints that she's really not interested in dating you and that's why you came to the conclusion that you're both really busy right now. You're using that as your own excuse hoping that you can prove your GUT FEELING wrong.

Don't you think if she was interested in you, see could find a little bit of time to meet up with you. I'm sure she can find time to go shopping.

Remember...Interested women will make it easy for you and her to get together. ;)
 

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No, we both are really very busy with school and work.

And I didn't ask her out on a date or anything, I just wanted to see if she had any free time this week so we could hang out.

But I might just be arguing because you're right.
 
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