First of one of my goals for this year is getting 50 girls numbers in HS. I want to know when is the right time to get the number in HS. Cause getting the number right away isn't the smart way to go. So the question is "when is the right time"
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Jamal said:First of one of my goals for this year is getting 50 girls numbers in HS. I want to know when is the right time to get the number in HS. Cause getting the number right away isn't the smart way to go. So the question is "when is the right time"
no listens up! you gotta get a girl a free lunch in the cafeteria! and when shes munchin her pudding, you slip her a piece of paper with ya digits!
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wtf are u talking about?Creepy Spence said:no listens up! you gotta get a girl a free lunch in the cafeteria! and when shes munchin her pudding, you slip her a piece of paper with ya digits!
In highschool, it's not always smart to ask for a number during the first encounter. I mean, if it's just a random chick that you've never seen before fine. But if it's a girl in your class, wait a while. First build that level of comfort and bring up something fun that you/her enjoy doing like swimming, laser tag, tennis..... Then just say,
"hey we should go do that sometime"
Her: "sure"
You: "cool, wuts your number?"
Her: "1-800-hot-b1tch"
Damian
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50 girls' numbers in HIGH SCHOOL doesn't seem like such a good idea to me. Because people in high school usually have established social circles, word might get around that you're just some creepy guy who asks for numbers.
Create comfort and make plans to hang out with a girl. When that's cemented in, you tell her to give you her number. That way, you already have a coffee date and the number will have a much higher chance of actually being REAL.
Just hang out and chill with girls in high school. If you want to do number closes, it's much easier (and has fewer implications) with strangers. You can easily do numbers anywhere OTHER than school.
Create comfort and make plans to hang out with a girl. When that's cemented in, you tell her to give you her number. That way, you already have a coffee date and the number will have a much higher chance of actually being REAL.
Just hang out and chill with girls in high school. If you want to do number closes, it's much easier (and has fewer implications) with strangers. You can easily do numbers anywhere OTHER than school.
Hey, did you guys here about the cat fight in the bathroom....
Her: no what happend
Dramatic story about two dikey looking girls fighting over some ugly ass guy (people) no one cares about
Her: No way
yah i thought it was pretty funny myself, So whats your name
Her:Blahah
thats strange we never met, i have to go meet up with my bros but (hand your Phone into her hand) here give me your number
Make fun of her small hands while shes typing her number
Her: blalaha blahaha no there not balaha balh (hands your phone back)
(You stick your hand out) and say lets compare (she puts her hand up to yours) (do the same with the other hand and intertwine fingers) see if she squeezes for compliance)
talk about how much smaller they are.
Her: blahlabhh
then call her number from your phone and tell her to save it.
let her save it then say
I have to go meet up with my friends, ill see you later
Her: no what happend
Dramatic story about two dikey looking girls fighting over some ugly ass guy (people) no one cares about
Her: No way
yah i thought it was pretty funny myself, So whats your name
Her:Blahah
thats strange we never met, i have to go meet up with my bros but (hand your Phone into her hand) here give me your number
Make fun of her small hands while shes typing her number
Her: blalaha blahaha no there not balaha balh (hands your phone back)
(You stick your hand out) and say lets compare (she puts her hand up to yours) (do the same with the other hand and intertwine fingers) see if she squeezes for compliance)
talk about how much smaller they are.
Her: blahlabhh
then call her number from your phone and tell her to save it.
let her save it then say
I have to go meet up with my friends, ill see you later
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You are in high school. Do you not go to house parties or gatherings with friends where you encounter new females? Approach one of them and start talking. As the conversation hits the climax, inform her that you must go back to attending your other friends (a time restraint) but you say you want to keep in touch. If you built enough rapport with her, she will give you her number.
It's as simple as that. Getting digits in HS is much easier than the outside world in other random places, take advantage of it and network with friends!
It's as simple as that. Getting digits in HS is much easier than the outside world in other random places, take advantage of it and network with friends!