First of one of my goals for this year is getting 50 girls numbers in HS. I want to know when is the right time to get the number in HS. Cause getting the number right away isn't the smart way to go. So the question is "when is the right time"
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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- Thread starter Jamal
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Jamal said:First of one of my goals for this year is getting 50 girls numbers in HS. I want to know when is the right time to get the number in HS. Cause getting the number right away isn't the smart way to go. So the question is "when is the right time"
no listens up! you gotta get a girl a free lunch in the cafeteria! and when shes munchin her pudding, you slip her a piece of paper with ya digits!
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wtf are u talking about?Creepy Spence said:no listens up! you gotta get a girl a free lunch in the cafeteria! and when shes munchin her pudding, you slip her a piece of paper with ya digits!
In highschool, it's not always smart to ask for a number during the first encounter. I mean, if it's just a random chick that you've never seen before fine. But if it's a girl in your class, wait a while. First build that level of comfort and bring up something fun that you/her enjoy doing like swimming, laser tag, tennis..... Then just say,
"hey we should go do that sometime"
Her: "sure"
You: "cool, wuts your number?"
Her: "1-800-hot-b1tch"
Damian
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50 girls' numbers in HIGH SCHOOL doesn't seem like such a good idea to me. Because people in high school usually have established social circles, word might get around that you're just some creepy guy who asks for numbers.
Create comfort and make plans to hang out with a girl. When that's cemented in, you tell her to give you her number. That way, you already have a coffee date and the number will have a much higher chance of actually being REAL.
Just hang out and chill with girls in high school. If you want to do number closes, it's much easier (and has fewer implications) with strangers. You can easily do numbers anywhere OTHER than school.
Create comfort and make plans to hang out with a girl. When that's cemented in, you tell her to give you her number. That way, you already have a coffee date and the number will have a much higher chance of actually being REAL.
Just hang out and chill with girls in high school. If you want to do number closes, it's much easier (and has fewer implications) with strangers. You can easily do numbers anywhere OTHER than school.
Hey, did you guys here about the cat fight in the bathroom....
Her: no what happend
Dramatic story about two dikey looking girls fighting over some ugly ass guy (people) no one cares about
Her: No way
yah i thought it was pretty funny myself, So whats your name
Her:Blahah
thats strange we never met, i have to go meet up with my bros but (hand your Phone into her hand) here give me your number
Make fun of her small hands while shes typing her number
Her: blalaha blahaha no there not balaha balh (hands your phone back)
(You stick your hand out) and say lets compare (she puts her hand up to yours) (do the same with the other hand and intertwine fingers) see if she squeezes for compliance)
talk about how much smaller they are.
Her: blahlabhh
then call her number from your phone and tell her to save it.
let her save it then say
I have to go meet up with my friends, ill see you later
Her: no what happend
Dramatic story about two dikey looking girls fighting over some ugly ass guy (people) no one cares about
Her: No way
yah i thought it was pretty funny myself, So whats your name
Her:Blahah
thats strange we never met, i have to go meet up with my bros but (hand your Phone into her hand) here give me your number
Make fun of her small hands while shes typing her number
Her: blalaha blahaha no there not balaha balh (hands your phone back)
(You stick your hand out) and say lets compare (she puts her hand up to yours) (do the same with the other hand and intertwine fingers) see if she squeezes for compliance)
talk about how much smaller they are.
Her: blahlabhh
then call her number from your phone and tell her to save it.
let her save it then say
I have to go meet up with my friends, ill see you later
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You are in high school. Do you not go to house parties or gatherings with friends where you encounter new females? Approach one of them and start talking. As the conversation hits the climax, inform her that you must go back to attending your other friends (a time restraint) but you say you want to keep in touch. If you built enough rapport with her, she will give you her number.
It's as simple as that. Getting digits in HS is much easier than the outside world in other random places, take advantage of it and network with friends!
It's as simple as that. Getting digits in HS is much easier than the outside world in other random places, take advantage of it and network with friends!