Phone number = Illusion

[NSX-R]

Getting a phone number from a chick can be sometimes an Illusion and a fake confidence boost.

I have made many observations of myself, the forums and also through conversations with my friends that getting a phone number isn't always what we believe to be.

Most of the guys if not all of them , out there , believe that since the chick has given them their phone number, then the chick is fully into them . That's half true.

The ages where if you got to speak to a woman meant that you are going to marry her are long gone. Some people keep on believing the same thing but through the modern ways ( getting her digits,texting her ,etc).
Meanwhile a girl giving you her number can have a milion explanations about why she did that .

What i want to say is that ,if you get the phone assume absolutely nothing. It's going to destroy you if you do. One example of this is in this thread ( http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/never-confess-your-feelings-through-texts.231074/ ).
Most of the chicks are doing it in a friendly way or as a way to escape an awkward situation which they hate.

As i said , assume nothing and keep on with your life. If you want to see if the chick has any interest in you , then ask her out . That's the ultimate IOI.

 

[nismo-4]

It only matters if she wants to go out with you and her actions back it up. But good read nonetheless.

 

[Maximus Rex]

I'm glad that you realized this. I had some idiot in another thread tell me that by getting the number, you're halfway there.

 

[wifehunter]

 

[Huffman]

Anyone who has gotten a lot of numbers knows that a large amount of them don't lead to sex. And sometimes the girl who didn't seem so interested in person is the most enthusiastic when sent the follow up text. If you'll excuse the pun, It's all just a numbers game.

Exactly. Why are we even debating this? Anyone who is not sure of this should get some more experience, and get it fast.

 

[Trump]

- Getting a phone number from a chick can be sometimes an Illusion and a fake confidence boost.
- I have made many observations of myself
- Most of the guys if not all of them , out there , believe that since the chick has given them their phone number, then the chick is fully into them .
- The ages where if you got to speak to a woman meant that you are going to marry her are long gone.
- Meanwhile a girl giving you her number can have a milion explanations about why she did that .
- What i want to say is that ,if you get the phone assume absolutely nothing. It's going to destroy you if you do.
- Most of the chicks are doing it in a friendly way or as a way to escape an awkward situation which they hate.

- If you want to see if the chick has any interest in you , then ask her out . That's the ultimate IOI.

Bro your whole thread falls apart in the last sentence. Her saying yes to going out with you means nothing either, it could be an illusion and a fake confidence boost as well.

I don't know bro, you tell us never to assume anything and everything is half true with women, and then make a major assuming statement at the end.

 

[NSX-R]

Bro your whole thread falls apart in the last sentence. Her saying yes to going out with you means nothing either, it could be an illusion and a fake confidence boost as well.

I don't know bro, you tell us never to assume anything and everything is half true with women, and then make a major assuming statement at the end.

You are right. I was in hurry while writing this and my last sentence wasn't as complete as i had it on my mind and when i came back to fix it the forum wouldn't allow me.

What i wanted to say was that you have to ask the girl out and if she agrees and comes to the date , then we should assume that she has some interest for you.

I'm glad that you realized this. I had some idiot in another thread tell me that by getting the number, you're halfway there.

Haha it seems your memory is as good as an 'elephant's ' .
Even though I'll agree with @Espi ,still you need the number. I can't imagine how you could setup a date with the chick if you don't have her number (considering that you don't have any information about her from situations like cold approaches or in a club ) .

Maybe he has some prodigious text game that should be shared among the community...

It's not a secret if you have been for a long time here or have seen the threads in the dj bible.
It's simple. Just ask her out . No need for chit chat that would dig your grave.

 

[marmel75]

Phone numbers are irrelevant for the most part.

 

[Maximus Rex]

I'm glad that you realized this. I had some idiot in another thread tell me that by getting the number, you're halfway there.

Ain't this about a b*tch. Ironically, it was NSX-R,who was the "idiot," in question because just fifteen days ago he said this,

I disagree. Getting the chick's number is like having 50% of the job done. If she gives it without any hesitation that's big IOI and you can proceed later, if not you know it's not worth it and you don't have to spend pointless time chasing her.
Is This a Sign That She's Interested or Nah? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....-shes-interestedn-or-nah.230711/#post-2302403

Maybe he has some prodigious text game that should be shared among the community...

Now that you bring it up he said this,

I have made many cold approaches and met many chicks the last summer and got some experience.
Today's chicks are cold enough to even respond with an insult to your " hey". Not to mention if they don't like you then they won't give you their number, that's one. Ti
ll now every chick that gave me their number responded to my texts. The difference was that those that were a bit hesitant to give away their number, were those that flaked in the end. I'm from Europe and I don't think things are different in the other side of the Atlantic.

So I guess that his "good text," wasn't so prodigious after all. In the end, in the end we always come back to this inevitable truth.

Rex, you're right. So I'm Laying in Bed with My Girlfriend And...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....-bed-w-my-girlfriend-and.211322/#post-2108633

 

[NSX-R]

Ain't this about a b*tch. Ironically, it was NSX-R,who was the "idiot," in question because just fifteen days ago he said this,





Now that you bring it up he said this,



So I guess that his "good text," wasn't so prodigious after all. In the end, in the end we always come back to this inevitable truth.

Still i don't understand where is the problem . My statement is staying the same . I never said that the chick is ready to merry you after a simple phone number exchange and never said that giving you her number is not important. You have to always take a good look of your surroundings.A girl that was hesitant of giving you her number is obvious that she's not interested and it's not that you should assume nothing because you already got the answer that there is no chance in hell to do something with her.

The opposite is the same.A girl giving you her number without hesitation is WHEN you should assume nothing because you don't have the answer of her interest for you. It's 50/50. That's when asking her for a date comes. TIll this point is as i said 50% of the job done.

What's your job? Fck her?See if she's interested in you? Who knows. There are stages to come into where you want.

First stage is to approach the chick.
Second stage is to build some trust with her .
Third stage ,if all previous stages are completed ,go for her phone number.
Fourth stage, set and go to a date with her.
Fifth stage , You get your answer.

Either you like it or not, we live in times that technology is inside our lives and we can't live without it. Trying to do something with a girl in our days without having her digits ,it isn't going to work except if you are both experienced in smoke signals.

You are calling me an "idiot'' while proving absolutely nothing. Who's the''idiot'' again?

 

[TheGambino]

PHONE NUMBERS DONT MEAN **** I CAN TELL I APPROACHED 1000+ LOL