"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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heater528

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Got a quick question called one of the chicks numbers that i got last night, Planned on keeping the convo short, however this chick talked and talked and talked... I watched the clock and at about 10 minutes i broke in and said hey i got some things i need to get done gime a call This weekend and we can get together next week sometime... Her tone of voice completly changed and she said oh have a good night bye lol... What is a natrual and smoother way to end a phone convo with a girl like this and why is it that girls love to blab on the phone while me and most guys hate it ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wee

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Originally posted by heater528
Got a quick question called one of the chicks numbers that i got last night, Planned on keeping the convo short, however this chick talked and talked and talked... I watched the clock and at about 10 minutes i broke in and said hey i got some things i need to get done gime a call This weekend and we can get together next week sometime... Her tone of voice completly changed and she said oh have a good night bye lol... What is a natrual and smoother way to end a phone convo with a girl like this and why is it that girls love to blab on the phone while me and most guys hate it ?
That was a good way to end it. Just seem busy and all. When she was liek "oh have a good night bye" what do you mean her tone changed?
 

heater528

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Well she was all upbeat until the clock hit 10 minutes and i said i had to get things done.. then her tone went down and seemed like she was either pissed or dissapointed
 

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^thats exactly the tone u want man

it means she wanted more of u

a bad ending would be for her to be glad to get off the fone with u
 
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