"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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heater528

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Got a quick question called one of the chicks numbers that i got last night, Planned on keeping the convo short, however this chick talked and talked and talked... I watched the clock and at about 10 minutes i broke in and said hey i got some things i need to get done gime a call This weekend and we can get together next week sometime... Her tone of voice completly changed and she said oh have a good night bye lol... What is a natrual and smoother way to end a phone convo with a girl like this and why is it that girls love to blab on the phone while me and most guys hate it ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wee

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Originally posted by heater528
Got a quick question called one of the chicks numbers that i got last night, Planned on keeping the convo short, however this chick talked and talked and talked... I watched the clock and at about 10 minutes i broke in and said hey i got some things i need to get done gime a call This weekend and we can get together next week sometime... Her tone of voice completly changed and she said oh have a good night bye lol... What is a natrual and smoother way to end a phone convo with a girl like this and why is it that girls love to blab on the phone while me and most guys hate it ?
That was a good way to end it. Just seem busy and all. When she was liek "oh have a good night bye" what do you mean her tone changed?
 

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Well she was all upbeat until the clock hit 10 minutes and i said i had to get things done.. then her tone went down and seemed like she was either pissed or dissapointed
 

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^thats exactly the tone u want man

it means she wanted more of u

a bad ending would be for her to be glad to get off the fone with u
 
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