"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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heater528

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Got a quick question called one of the chicks numbers that i got last night, Planned on keeping the convo short, however this chick talked and talked and talked... I watched the clock and at about 10 minutes i broke in and said hey i got some things i need to get done gime a call This weekend and we can get together next week sometime... Her tone of voice completly changed and she said oh have a good night bye lol... What is a natrual and smoother way to end a phone convo with a girl like this and why is it that girls love to blab on the phone while me and most guys hate it ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by heater528
Got a quick question called one of the chicks numbers that i got last night, Planned on keeping the convo short, however this chick talked and talked and talked... I watched the clock and at about 10 minutes i broke in and said hey i got some things i need to get done gime a call This weekend and we can get together next week sometime... Her tone of voice completly changed and she said oh have a good night bye lol... What is a natrual and smoother way to end a phone convo with a girl like this and why is it that girls love to blab on the phone while me and most guys hate it ?
That was a good way to end it. Just seem busy and all. When she was liek "oh have a good night bye" what do you mean her tone changed?
 

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Well she was all upbeat until the clock hit 10 minutes and i said i had to get things done.. then her tone went down and seemed like she was either pissed or dissapointed
 

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^thats exactly the tone u want man

it means she wanted more of u

a bad ending would be for her to be glad to get off the fone with u
 
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