"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BowTie

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Invited this girl out about a week ago. Had fun, lots of kino. I *****ed out and didn't kiss her. Oh wells.

I just called her up and asked her out next week. She said yes but she has to check her schedule since her boss hasn't given her the schedule yet.

She gave me the dreaded line 'i'll let you know'.

I said ok and said I had to go.

I'm thinking no contact at all. Was that basically just a rejection?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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VladPatton

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Could be legit, could be a blow off. On either way, she put the ball in her own court, so....DO NOT hound her with any more calls. Leave her until she finds out her schedule as she mentioned, some time next week. If she doesn't reply she's not interested. Good luck.
 

apprenticedj

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I don't personally think NC is warranted just yet. Hit her up sometime next week to check her schedule, her response will determine both her level of interest and your course of action.
 

pdx1138

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no, do not contact her.

if she contacts you, YOU KNOW her interest is there.

as someone here said many times..."interested women will not confuse you"
 

GS750

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She said she'd let you know. If her interest level is high then she will.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BowTie

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Thanks for the advice guys.

Yeah I think I'll just wait it out.

It is important to note that the event is on Friday, and she will tell me on Friday if she can go... lol.

I'm thinking of double booking, then if both can go I can make up my mind on which to take.
 

954luigi

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bro if you like her contact her, it wont hurt. she might be a shy girl.
 

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Take someone else and she'll like you more.
 
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