"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BowTie

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Invited this girl out about a week ago. Had fun, lots of kino. I *****ed out and didn't kiss her. Oh wells.

I just called her up and asked her out next week. She said yes but she has to check her schedule since her boss hasn't given her the schedule yet.

She gave me the dreaded line 'i'll let you know'.

I said ok and said I had to go.

I'm thinking no contact at all. Was that basically just a rejection?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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VladPatton

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Could be legit, could be a blow off. On either way, she put the ball in her own court, so....DO NOT hound her with any more calls. Leave her until she finds out her schedule as she mentioned, some time next week. If she doesn't reply she's not interested. Good luck.
 

apprenticedj

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I don't personally think NC is warranted just yet. Hit her up sometime next week to check her schedule, her response will determine both her level of interest and your course of action.
 

pdx1138

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no, do not contact her.

if she contacts you, YOU KNOW her interest is there.

as someone here said many times..."interested women will not confuse you"
 

GS750

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She said she'd let you know. If her interest level is high then she will.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BowTie

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Thanks for the advice guys.

Yeah I think I'll just wait it out.

It is important to note that the event is on Friday, and she will tell me on Friday if she can go... lol.

I'm thinking of double booking, then if both can go I can make up my mind on which to take.
 

954luigi

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bro if you like her contact her, it wont hurt. she might be a shy girl.
 

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Take someone else and she'll like you more.
 
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