"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Philosophy on Relationships

TheHumanist

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The last two threads I made about what I been thinking lately have been largely busts on the general discussion. No one interested in talking beyond standard gaming or immediate issues. While I'm way under the age limit, I'm gonna try to make a thread here, maybe I'll get a few interesting posts before it get locked.

Anyways, on youtube someone who goes by ChosonNinja have a video recently featured talking about how we choose the people we want. I liked it (and obviouly the reason why they featured it) so I subscribed to him. Recently... he made this video on relationships...

I have my opinions, but for now, I want to hear what you guys think of it first (watch the whole thing BTW...).

BTW, he seems to be very open to new ideas and criticism. He was even cordial to the responders from the featured video who responded with racial prejudice and even made a video saying that he will gladly feature any video that crtizise his teachings and philosophies.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Sorry brother, but I had to move this since I like what you write, but I know you're not old enough to post in the MM forum.

Carry on.
 

Play the Game

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Zen Master knows what he's taking about.

One must master himself, before he masters women.
 
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