"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Philosophy on Relationships

TheHumanist

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The last two threads I made about what I been thinking lately have been largely busts on the general discussion. No one interested in talking beyond standard gaming or immediate issues. While I'm way under the age limit, I'm gonna try to make a thread here, maybe I'll get a few interesting posts before it get locked.

Anyways, on youtube someone who goes by ChosonNinja have a video recently featured talking about how we choose the people we want. I liked it (and obviouly the reason why they featured it) so I subscribed to him. Recently... he made this video on relationships...

I have my opinions, but for now, I want to hear what you guys think of it first (watch the whole thing BTW...).

BTW, he seems to be very open to new ideas and criticism. He was even cordial to the responders from the featured video who responded with racial prejudice and even made a video saying that he will gladly feature any video that crtizise his teachings and philosophies.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Sorry brother, but I had to move this since I like what you write, but I know you're not old enough to post in the MM forum.

Carry on.
 

Play the Game

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Zen Master knows what he's taking about.

One must master himself, before he masters women.
 
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