"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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phil2015 a screwed guy with screwed up girlfriend

backseatjuan

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I hope you're reading this phil2015. Let's all support this guy by making him ditch his girlfriend and savor the wonderfulness of being a bachelor.


Phil has a girlfriend. We don't know her name, but they work together, she is fvcking coworkers, and living at Phil's place, refusing to pay bills, and wants Phil to sign over his property to her. Let's support our buddy, because I feel he is a little pvssy and needs our support.


Yesterday work moved her to a different building/site due to workplace changes. She had worked here years ago and there's numerous guys she dated/had as f buddies in past etc.....Also, she admitted that she fancied/found attractive one of the sales guys there a few weeks back when she was angry.

Just wondering if any of you have ever had a girl physically hit you?
This weekend gone, my GF and I had a first proper argument after 5 months,
and I decided to terminate the relationship. I told her I had had enough and she
leapt on me and became physically violent, with slaps and punches to the head.
She was also verbally abusive and began shouting and getting aggressive towards
me.
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Bit of an odd situation but my GF has accused me of being 'angry' and has gone so far as to buy an e book for 'Angry and Controlling men'. This is after an argument yesterday where she compared me to her ex, and said I dont care about her at all


My GF has worked at the same company now since 2008, and whilst I accept
she has dated other guys before me, she has dated and had as F-Buddies a
number of them she works with.
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Whilst at the start of our relationship she was extremely open and honest
about it, it feels now like she is attempting to hide it. The most recent even
being a guy she ‘dated years ago, but nothing happened’ with, whom seems
to talk with her a few times a week whilst she is making coffee.


Yesterday she Has said she wants her name on the deeds before she will ever call it ‘our house’ or ‘home’ again. I stated to her that I bought the property, not her. Shes then basically threatened to go back to live at her mums unless I assign her name on the mortgage legally. She has also said she will refuse to pay towards bills again unless make it legally her property.​




Please explain to Phil that he has to dump her ass ASAP!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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>she has male fvck buddy coworkers still actively talk to
>living at Phil's place, refusing to pay bills, and wants Phil to sign over his property to her

RED FLAGS
RED FVCKING FLAGS EVERYWHERE

NO BYTCH YOU DO NOT GET TO TAKE WHAT I HAVE RIGHTFULLY EARNED FOR MYSELF
GET THE FVCK OUT AND STAY THE FVCK AWAY FROM ME /restrainorder

DUMP NOW or get rekt


NO, Seriously, No Man worth his manhood should EVER allow for this level of utter disrespect to himself, his domain and his property from ANY woman at all, especially if not even married!

DO NOT get her preggers no matter what, and this includes you staying away from alcohol OR ANYTHING she offers you.

And by the way, while you can't get back at her physically in this modern feminazi extremist-influenced world, you CAN get back at her legally. Assault and battery is a crime. File charges for good measure and good riddance.
 
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He has to want to change, and until that happens it won't matter what anyone else says.

Obviously his self-esteem must be very low because he thinks that is the best he can do and is afraid he won't find anything better if she leaves. Pretty sad.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok, deesade, you are from England, I want to ask you and anyone else who is from England especially from Manchester area to get in touch with phil2015 and help him out. All you have to do is help with his break up.

Phil2015, this is serious stuff man. Women actually use men to get their property. You have to let us to get you break up with that girl, hard and cold, and help you keep the stuff you earned with you. Let the guys help you. Let this not be just a an online message on forums let them get in touch and do this.

Please break up and teach him the difference between wanted to get laid and seducing women. Go sarging with him at least first week to get over this for good.


P.S. go ahead and post ur phone in your description for couple of days. You can say like 8 888 88 oh ehigh something. You'll remove it afterwards. Just so guys can get in touch with you asap.
 
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