"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pheromes...Love potion or waste of $$?

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There's some sites going around selling pheromes, and I was wondering what you lads think of them... The testimonials sound very appealing, things like "girls approach me much more often" but I was wondering if this is true, or a load of crap.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm sure its a factor on some level. There are many factors that constitute attraction though and that sure isn't a big one.
 

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Its not gonna change your life or anything. I'm sure it makes you smell better, but how big is that, you know?

Might as well just put on some Axe or something.
 

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This topic has been beaten to death over and over again. Try a search in the future, thanks.
 
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