"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pet names -is that good or bad?

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CaptainSausage

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I scored myself a new job.

I work with a large number of girls and some of them are very hot and very single.

However, 4 hours into my first day, many of the girls started to call me 'sweet heart' and all at roughly the same time.

Is this good :up: that I have an affectionate name?
Or is this bad :down: that I have an affectionate name and therefore deemed unthreatening?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It could simply be a dilect thing. Dont hang on it, i call all women Babe, Sexy, Good Lookin, Sweetheart, Darling. Its all done in a friendly was unless i want to move it up a level then i let my body languge do the majority of the work.
Pet Names are not bad at all, i have noticed that some girls mirror my pet names now which is an IOI.

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Well, i wouldn't say pet names are bad at all...

It's a sign of familiarity, which is good. But at the same time, i wouldn't read to much in to it, it doesn't mean much. But it's certainly not a bad thing.

I would say, mirror it, give her a petname as well!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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