"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pet names -is that good or bad?

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CaptainSausage

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I scored myself a new job.

I work with a large number of girls and some of them are very hot and very single.

However, 4 hours into my first day, many of the girls started to call me 'sweet heart' and all at roughly the same time.

Is this good :up: that I have an affectionate name?
Or is this bad :down: that I have an affectionate name and therefore deemed unthreatening?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It could simply be a dilect thing. Dont hang on it, i call all women Babe, Sexy, Good Lookin, Sweetheart, Darling. Its all done in a friendly was unless i want to move it up a level then i let my body languge do the majority of the work.
Pet Names are not bad at all, i have noticed that some girls mirror my pet names now which is an IOI.

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Well, i wouldn't say pet names are bad at all...

It's a sign of familiarity, which is good. But at the same time, i wouldn't read to much in to it, it doesn't mean much. But it's certainly not a bad thing.

I would say, mirror it, give her a petname as well!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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