"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Perspiring around girl :-(

logicallefty

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Been dating girl for almost 4 months now. At first, this was never a problem, it only started happening about 3 weeks ago. We only go out once a week, twice max.

Anyway, when I am around her, I don't feel nervous at all and don't act it, everything in the relationship is going perfect. But my armpits always start perspiring BIG time. Deoderant/antiperspirant that I wear takes care of me so there is never any smell, the deo part does it's job anyway. lol They sweat so much that it's down right annoying. We had a picture taken together at a wedding we went to for a friend and in the picture you could really see it.. :-( I even tried buying a couple other brands of deo/antiperspirant but it did no good..

It is really odd.. Again, it only happens around her, it has never happened around other chicks or in general, not like this.. And again, I do not feel nervous or act it. If it were that I would think it woulda been happening in the beginning, not 3+ months into the relationship..

Anybody got any ideas???????
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WEIRD!

Dude, I've had the exact same thing happen to me with a couple chicks!

Let me ask... have you banged this chick yet?

(trust me, I have a theory)
 

Mr.Positive

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I used to have heavy underarm prespiration, it was embarrassing. Try Certaindry. You put it on before going to sleep at night. It took care of my problem.
 

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is it just your underarms? what about your forehead, balls, feet, hands?

you could always buy a dog. they LOVE salty sweat. it could like your armpits for you when your gf is around, your balls too if needed (it will make your girlfriend jealous too boot.)

other than that ;) I suggest you go out and buy 10 different kinds of deoderants.

i dont sweat too heavily, but for me ive found degree works awesome. all the other brands i gotta worry towards the end of the day whether my pits are startin to stink or not.

the other option is to talk to a doctor. it sounds like this is tied somehow to anxiety. theres probably some pill they can give you to regulate it.
 

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Guys, just because you're over 25, it doesn't mean ALL posts are mature man topics.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Banged, yes. It's mainly the pits.. Sometimes the arms, hands, and forehead. I really don't feel any anxiety around her so if there is some in there, it's even fooling me, but I almost don't know what else it could be. It only happens like this around her, not around anybody else past and present, not anywhere else. Vulpine, what's your theory??

Sorry mod, posted in mature man because the flaming seems to be minimal there and the topic was related to dating.. My bad....
 
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