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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Perspiring around girl :-(

logicallefty

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Been dating girl for almost 4 months now. At first, this was never a problem, it only started happening about 3 weeks ago. We only go out once a week, twice max.

Anyway, when I am around her, I don't feel nervous at all and don't act it, everything in the relationship is going perfect. But my armpits always start perspiring BIG time. Deoderant/antiperspirant that I wear takes care of me so there is never any smell, the deo part does it's job anyway. lol They sweat so much that it's down right annoying. We had a picture taken together at a wedding we went to for a friend and in the picture you could really see it.. :-( I even tried buying a couple other brands of deo/antiperspirant but it did no good..

It is really odd.. Again, it only happens around her, it has never happened around other chicks or in general, not like this.. And again, I do not feel nervous or act it. If it were that I would think it woulda been happening in the beginning, not 3+ months into the relationship..

Anybody got any ideas???????
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WEIRD!

Dude, I've had the exact same thing happen to me with a couple chicks!

Let me ask... have you banged this chick yet?

(trust me, I have a theory)
 

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I used to have heavy underarm prespiration, it was embarrassing. Try Certaindry. You put it on before going to sleep at night. It took care of my problem.
 

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is it just your underarms? what about your forehead, balls, feet, hands?

you could always buy a dog. they LOVE salty sweat. it could like your armpits for you when your gf is around, your balls too if needed (it will make your girlfriend jealous too boot.)

other than that ;) I suggest you go out and buy 10 different kinds of deoderants.

i dont sweat too heavily, but for me ive found degree works awesome. all the other brands i gotta worry towards the end of the day whether my pits are startin to stink or not.

the other option is to talk to a doctor. it sounds like this is tied somehow to anxiety. theres probably some pill they can give you to regulate it.
 

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Guys, just because you're over 25, it doesn't mean ALL posts are mature man topics.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Banged, yes. It's mainly the pits.. Sometimes the arms, hands, and forehead. I really don't feel any anxiety around her so if there is some in there, it's even fooling me, but I almost don't know what else it could be. It only happens like this around her, not around anybody else past and present, not anywhere else. Vulpine, what's your theory??

Sorry mod, posted in mature man because the flaming seems to be minimal there and the topic was related to dating.. My bad....
 
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