There is this girl, who has practically brushed any guy aside who tried to approach her. But when i went and asked for her email, she gave in with almost no resistance... I know i should be happy, but i dont realise why it was so easy. I didnt even fluff too much. Didnt try to create any interest. Just went directly with, 'I am interested in you' and asked for her id. Was busy for two days. Just sent a message to her. Can you guys tell me wtf is happening. She is a 9 comfortably. Fairly popular in my college and well i an quite goodlooking myself and have good amount of social proof going. But is it really supposed to be so easy??
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Perspective needed. Seems too easy to be true.
- Thread starter kokane
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
E-mails are piss to hand out. She can block you if she gets bored of you.
Hell, mobile phone numbers are given out like candy these days.
Hell, mobile phone numbers are given out like candy these days.
Igetit!
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It's because you approached her as a MAN.kokane said:There is this girl, who has practically brushed any guy aside who tried to approach her. But when i went and asked for her email, she gave in with almost no resistance... I know i should be happy, but i dont realise why it was so easy. I didnt even fluff too much. Didnt try to create any interest. Just went directly with, 'I am interested in you' and asked for her id. Was busy for two days. Just sent a message to her. Can you guys tell me wtf is happening. She is a 9 comfortably. Fairly popular in my college and well i an quite goodlooking myself and have good amount of social proof going. But is it really supposed to be so easy??
No stumbling,bumbling,no beating around the bush.
Most guys will approach a girl and talk about anything and everything other than the two of them dating.
They won't be direct because they're scared that they'll get rejected.
To me you have the PERFECT COMBINATION WHEN YOU APPROACHED HER...
1:Being STRAIGHT FORWARD about your intentions,which shows confidence and a take-charge/go for what you want kind of attitude.
2:Boldness and fearlessness. You knew she could reject you. She knew she could reject you. And she knew that you knew she could reject you as well. The fact that you were so direct like that showed her that you cared less about getting turned down,which is attractive to a woman.
You approached her THE RIGHT WAY... as a MAN.
Listen to this: You approached her telling her WHAT YOU WANTED.
Most guys approach a girl by praising her. "You're so hot","You're gorgeous","You're beautiful",all "you","you","you".
You approached her saying "I". You put the focus on yourself...your wants and desires. You approached her as you being the prize,which is what you are.
You said you didn't fluff talk too much. It's a good thing you didn't.
My guess is she would have seen the fluffing as you tap dancing around what it was you really wanted,and thus be turned off.
Fluff doesn't cause a girl to be attracted to you,being a MAN does.
Get the attraction established FIRST. Once that's settled,then you can fluff.
If you do it the other way around,you're likely headed for the friendzone.
But listen...The way you approached her is the way you'll have to continue to act and behave. If you change,her attraction for you will too.
You can't pull the old "bait and switch".
Anyway,good luck man.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Igetit... gets it! Lol.
Also, if she was interested in you to start with, than there is not going to be much resistance, at least not with just getting her digits or email. It is hard for a guy who is already "in" and with high IL to be ousted, believe it or not.
The guys that girls are dissing, are guys they aren't interested in.
Something about you interests her, for the time being.
You'll either raise her IL, or lower it. Have fun! Be confident, and be a man.
Also, if she was interested in you to start with, than there is not going to be much resistance, at least not with just getting her digits or email. It is hard for a guy who is already "in" and with high IL to be ousted, believe it or not.
The guys that girls are dissing, are guys they aren't interested in.
Something about you interests her, for the time being.
You'll either raise her IL, or lower it. Have fun! Be confident, and be a man.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Don't be surprised or too proud bro. Getting an e-mail is one thing, keeping her attracted is another ball game.
Why the other dudes failed was due to their sleaziness and uncoordinated approach.
For future reference, don't make a big deal out of getting a number or e-mail; and don't be proud getting a 9's number.
Looks are nothing unless she's someone that really meets your eye and interest.
Why the other dudes failed was due to their sleaziness and uncoordinated approach.
For future reference, don't make a big deal out of getting a number or e-mail; and don't be proud getting a 9's number.
Looks are nothing unless she's someone that really meets your eye and interest.
Thanks a lot friends for your perspectives. Talked to her yesterday, seems the ball is in my court. igetit, special thanks to you Man for boosting my confidence a tad bit higher. And allurre, its my first 9 man, so atleast let me enjoy for one two days man. Lol. My cousins are players themselves, but they approach a girl with lies, manipulations, buying and what not. When i show them my approach, they simply laugh. But hey, works for me. Besides i am not proud of myself. I know i have a long way to go. And i know if no one else, i will atleast have you guys to help me.