"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mike88nf

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Which kind of personality is better with girls and people in general?

The "take yourself seriously" or the "dont take yourself seriously" personality? Here's my view on things from what I've seen;

Serious
The people who take themselves seriously are calm and relaxed. They usually have less to say, and are never spontaneous or unpredictable. They still joke around and have a sense of humor, but a much more subdued/quiet humor. They still laugh at jokes and can have a good time, but they never try do stupid sh1t to get others to laugh at them. They have a big ego/pride and take offense when someone laughes at/makes fun of them, sometimes starting fights.

They still have friends and they are respected highly. Everyone wants to listen to what they're saying because they are serious about it.

Crazy/Goofy/Funny
On the other side, the people who dont take themselves seriously are usually loud, always having something to say. They are spontaneous and will say and do stupid stuff without thinking to get others to laugh at/with them. They usually have no ego/pride and dont care when they are being made fun of.

They still have friends, but for the most part it seems as though they are respected less and get picked on more often than others. Sometimes people dont listen to what they have to say because they are just goofing off half the time.


Which personality is better with girls and people in general?

Obviously the serious personality is more of a "jerk" or bad boy" personality and the crazy/goofy personality is more of a "nice guy" or "funny" personality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonJuanMonk

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This is a useless post. STOP TRYING TO BE SOMEONE YOU'RE NOT. STOP PRETENDING YOU SHOULD EMULATE A CELEBRITY TO FIT THE MOLD YOU WANT. :cuss: :cuss: :cuss:
 

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Yeah, it's not a specific personality... it's being in the right state at the right time. If it's time to be serious, playing is immature. If you're trying to put someone else at ease, being serious isn't the way to do it. If some guy tries to fight you, it's about talking your way out of it. If some lunatic runs up trying to stab you in a dark alley, it's about defending yourself. In essence, it's about being real.
 

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Originally posted by mike88nf
Which kind of personality is better with girls and people in general?

The "take yourself seriously" or the "dont take yourself seriously" personality?
You do know that there are more than two distinct types of personality...right?
 

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Yeah there are several personality types...but out of the two you have, I'm a bit of both. I love joking around and I do all kinds of unpredictable things. But, I'm a very serious person at times.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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S-lemond

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sorry bout the jackasses that replyed to your thread mike! but hes a little word of advice! someone that can laugh at him/her self is seldom disliked!
 

S-lemond

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i mean look at the guys post count! and stop being jackasses...my gosh!!!! i sure am happy i didnt make threads when i was new! geezzzz
 

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the best advise to give yourself is "fek em if they cant take a joke "
 

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Ok, nmaybe I should have named this thread "taking yourself seriously or not?", that would have gotten the point across better.

I know there are thousands of different personalitys out there, I was just asking to get some opinions on taking yourself seriously or not and how it fits in with girls and people in general

Now anyone got some opinions/advice?
 

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Originally posted by E_ze05
i mean look at the guys post count! and stop being jackasses...my gosh!!!! i sure am happy i didnt make threads when i was new! geezzzz
Watch the name calling, man. And exactly how did "we" reply negatively?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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