European-DJ
Master Don Juan
I am wondering if anyone else, who has spent a considerable amount of time on the dating scene, has encountered a similar change in their mindset.
As time progresses, I am becoming more attracted to personality than looks; when I joined this site (18 years old) I only cared about looks. I remember how I would (in my mind) be head-over-heels for the 9's, while I couldn't care less about the 6's and 7's that I had sex with. However, over time, I notice that I have become indifferent when a hot girl gets cold, whereas the average girl (with a good personality obv.) will make my mind tangle up.
Now, I know that I will be flamed on this forum for what I am about to write, but I am wondering if this is because I am approaching a time in my life (25 years old) where my mind is subconsciously thinking about settling in a stable monogamous relationship with a girl of "average looks" (that turns me on/is good in bed) and a great personality? In doing so, I would get a girl that stimulates me both mentally and physically but without having to deal with the hassle associated with committing to a 9?
I am curious about your thoughts on this matter!
/European
As time progresses, I am becoming more attracted to personality than looks; when I joined this site (18 years old) I only cared about looks. I remember how I would (in my mind) be head-over-heels for the 9's, while I couldn't care less about the 6's and 7's that I had sex with. However, over time, I notice that I have become indifferent when a hot girl gets cold, whereas the average girl (with a good personality obv.) will make my mind tangle up.
Now, I know that I will be flamed on this forum for what I am about to write, but I am wondering if this is because I am approaching a time in my life (25 years old) where my mind is subconsciously thinking about settling in a stable monogamous relationship with a girl of "average looks" (that turns me on/is good in bed) and a great personality? In doing so, I would get a girl that stimulates me both mentally and physically but without having to deal with the hassle associated with committing to a 9?
I am curious about your thoughts on this matter!
/European
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