Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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personality has an inverse relationship with attractiveness in women(to a point)

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a girl who is like a HB6 or HB7 actually needs to develop a desirable trait other than looks because they aren't so great looking that they can skate through life without trying

so basically, sometimes you don't want the hottest girl in the room, sometimes the hottest girl in the room will be boring and/or otherwise uninteresting, sometimes she'll be **** in bed, sometimes she'll make you jump through hoops and play games

meanwhile the HB7 you didn't notice would require much less effort, and looser game and you'd be rewarded with a personality constructed as if her goal in life was likability.

the to a point in the title is because a HB3 is likely incredibly angry and bitter for obvious reasons, so don't stray below HB5
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I understand what your getting at....but HB10 with a sh1tty personality > HB7 with good personality. Guys will always want to bang the hottest girl.
 

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exactly

the guys are most of the problem

any hot girl with a bad personality is like that because she's learned that all she needs to do is show up to be treated like the queen of the world

no HB7 is used to that and thus no HB7 could take it for granted
 

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Anything which is not that ugly gets a good treatment when it comes of girls, an hb7 nowadays gets hit as often as a hotties in any club or office.

That damage doesnt come from the fact that guy hit almost on every girl but from the fact that such girls dont realized that its their body to be liked and not them as person thus they think so high of themselves.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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In my experience, there is an inverse relationship between a woman's skills in bed, and her perceived level of attractiveness. Pretty girls mostly just lay there. The best sex I have had has been with women who have recently lost a lot of weight or otherwise become more attractive, and their self-esteem had not yet caught up.
 

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^exactly
 
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