"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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personality has an inverse relationship with attractiveness in women(to a point)

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a girl who is like a HB6 or HB7 actually needs to develop a desirable trait other than looks because they aren't so great looking that they can skate through life without trying

so basically, sometimes you don't want the hottest girl in the room, sometimes the hottest girl in the room will be boring and/or otherwise uninteresting, sometimes she'll be **** in bed, sometimes she'll make you jump through hoops and play games

meanwhile the HB7 you didn't notice would require much less effort, and looser game and you'd be rewarded with a personality constructed as if her goal in life was likability.

the to a point in the title is because a HB3 is likely incredibly angry and bitter for obvious reasons, so don't stray below HB5
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I understand what your getting at....but HB10 with a sh1tty personality > HB7 with good personality. Guys will always want to bang the hottest girl.
 

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exactly

the guys are most of the problem

any hot girl with a bad personality is like that because she's learned that all she needs to do is show up to be treated like the queen of the world

no HB7 is used to that and thus no HB7 could take it for granted
 

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Anything which is not that ugly gets a good treatment when it comes of girls, an hb7 nowadays gets hit as often as a hotties in any club or office.

That damage doesnt come from the fact that guy hit almost on every girl but from the fact that such girls dont realized that its their body to be liked and not them as person thus they think so high of themselves.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In my experience, there is an inverse relationship between a woman's skills in bed, and her perceived level of attractiveness. Pretty girls mostly just lay there. The best sex I have had has been with women who have recently lost a lot of weight or otherwise become more attractive, and their self-esteem had not yet caught up.
 

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^exactly
 
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