"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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personality has an inverse relationship with attractiveness in women(to a point)

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a girl who is like a HB6 or HB7 actually needs to develop a desirable trait other than looks because they aren't so great looking that they can skate through life without trying

so basically, sometimes you don't want the hottest girl in the room, sometimes the hottest girl in the room will be boring and/or otherwise uninteresting, sometimes she'll be **** in bed, sometimes she'll make you jump through hoops and play games

meanwhile the HB7 you didn't notice would require much less effort, and looser game and you'd be rewarded with a personality constructed as if her goal in life was likability.

the to a point in the title is because a HB3 is likely incredibly angry and bitter for obvious reasons, so don't stray below HB5
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I understand what your getting at....but HB10 with a sh1tty personality > HB7 with good personality. Guys will always want to bang the hottest girl.
 

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exactly

the guys are most of the problem

any hot girl with a bad personality is like that because she's learned that all she needs to do is show up to be treated like the queen of the world

no HB7 is used to that and thus no HB7 could take it for granted
 

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Anything which is not that ugly gets a good treatment when it comes of girls, an hb7 nowadays gets hit as often as a hotties in any club or office.

That damage doesnt come from the fact that guy hit almost on every girl but from the fact that such girls dont realized that its their body to be liked and not them as person thus they think so high of themselves.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In my experience, there is an inverse relationship between a woman's skills in bed, and her perceived level of attractiveness. Pretty girls mostly just lay there. The best sex I have had has been with women who have recently lost a lot of weight or otherwise become more attractive, and their self-esteem had not yet caught up.
 

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^exactly
 
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