I met this girl who was going through a divorce. She ended up moving in with me and we lived together for 11 months. During that time she got divorced, got custody of her child and things seemed to be going forward. We ran into some issues like her mother not liking me she even stabbed me with a knife which I forgave her. I forced Her mother to go home considering she was in the US illegally on a tourist visa. Her family only liked the idea that I could send them money since they from a third world country. Anyways I got her pregnant 2 months ago and she turn extremely abusive started slapping me and what not.
On the last month she took it too far and started punching me in the face. She left her last ex because he would abuse and punch her. Anyways I wasn't going to have the cops called on me so I just simply restrained her until she calmed down she threw up and I figure things would calm down. She ended up during that week of silence getting an abortion and then having her ex husband who tried to suffocate her with a pillow and beat hurt I read the old police reports, who still begged for her to come with a uhaul and move back with him and her son.
Her crazy ass told me she aborted the baby because I am an abuser for restraining her and not allowing her to hit me. She claimed as a woman her punches don't hurt. I told her I restrained not because the punches hurt because she was abusive and disrespectful. I said my what I had to say and told her she was a monster through tears of losing my child.
2 days to by and she calling me on FaceTime complaining about living with her ex husband while he there cleaning in the background. I bluntly asked her why are you calling me you choose to kill our baby and you choose to live with someone who abuser you before. She started to talk about suicide and being in a depression. I told her to see a therapist she needs professional help. I also mention how she could cut off her mother from her life. She didn't want to hear that and I think she wanted me to get and plead like her ex husband.
5 days to by and she calls to tell new about how she on liquid Prozac and that seeing a therapist. I told her great hopefully the doctor can figure out why your abusive. She got pissed by that comment as said it was for depression not because of being abusive. She then proceeds to tell me to move on in my life, I tell her I already am. Walking 3 miles a day dropped 5lbs. Studying to increase my job prospects and been to a few friends houses for dinner and socializing. She sounded pissed off during our time together she tried to isolate me from my friends and family and would get jealous when women smiled at me lol. Anyways I told her while I don't agree what she did it's not my place to judge her and that God will judge her on the abortion and all I can do is forgive her like jesus would. She then tells me about her ex husband giving his credit card so she can order Starbucks to the house and how he bought her a puppy. I told her that was nice but I don't understand why your telling me that, it's not my life so I don't care. She also points out she not sleeping her ex and has a completely different rooms she is staying in. (Even if that was true that won't stay that way I'm not dumb)
After that conversation she ends up blocking me on Facebook (she forgot that her brother had once logged into his Facebook on my PC which is still logged in) and posting and image of her ex husband and her together smiling saying there happy back together. I am thinking great I'll never hear from her again time to live my life and actually go out on a date.
She ends up unblocking me 7 days later and making her Facebook profile public, mine is still private. I decide to look through because weakness and I was thinking about the crazy sex we had. Apparently on her Facebook she hidden the post about her husband to a special Facebook group only her family and close friends see. She wants me to think she still ok living a separate life from her husband.
I am quite insulted this ***** thinks I am stupid, I think she wants me to get and plead for her and chase and have me be her plan B. What are your thoughts on why she unblocked me after a week. I am committed to no contact forever but the idea of crazy sex on the side sounds nice.
On the last month she took it too far and started punching me in the face. She left her last ex because he would abuse and punch her. Anyways I wasn't going to have the cops called on me so I just simply restrained her until she calmed down she threw up and I figure things would calm down. She ended up during that week of silence getting an abortion and then having her ex husband who tried to suffocate her with a pillow and beat hurt I read the old police reports, who still begged for her to come with a uhaul and move back with him and her son.
Her crazy ass told me she aborted the baby because I am an abuser for restraining her and not allowing her to hit me. She claimed as a woman her punches don't hurt. I told her I restrained not because the punches hurt because she was abusive and disrespectful. I said my what I had to say and told her she was a monster through tears of losing my child.
2 days to by and she calling me on FaceTime complaining about living with her ex husband while he there cleaning in the background. I bluntly asked her why are you calling me you choose to kill our baby and you choose to live with someone who abuser you before. She started to talk about suicide and being in a depression. I told her to see a therapist she needs professional help. I also mention how she could cut off her mother from her life. She didn't want to hear that and I think she wanted me to get and plead like her ex husband.
5 days to by and she calls to tell new about how she on liquid Prozac and that seeing a therapist. I told her great hopefully the doctor can figure out why your abusive. She got pissed by that comment as said it was for depression not because of being abusive. She then proceeds to tell me to move on in my life, I tell her I already am. Walking 3 miles a day dropped 5lbs. Studying to increase my job prospects and been to a few friends houses for dinner and socializing. She sounded pissed off during our time together she tried to isolate me from my friends and family and would get jealous when women smiled at me lol. Anyways I told her while I don't agree what she did it's not my place to judge her and that God will judge her on the abortion and all I can do is forgive her like jesus would. She then tells me about her ex husband giving his credit card so she can order Starbucks to the house and how he bought her a puppy. I told her that was nice but I don't understand why your telling me that, it's not my life so I don't care. She also points out she not sleeping her ex and has a completely different rooms she is staying in. (Even if that was true that won't stay that way I'm not dumb)
After that conversation she ends up blocking me on Facebook (she forgot that her brother had once logged into his Facebook on my PC which is still logged in) and posting and image of her ex husband and her together smiling saying there happy back together. I am thinking great I'll never hear from her again time to live my life and actually go out on a date.
She ends up unblocking me 7 days later and making her Facebook profile public, mine is still private. I decide to look through because weakness and I was thinking about the crazy sex we had. Apparently on her Facebook she hidden the post about her husband to a special Facebook group only her family and close friends see. She wants me to think she still ok living a separate life from her husband.
I am quite insulted this ***** thinks I am stupid, I think she wants me to get and plead for her and chase and have me be her plan B. What are your thoughts on why she unblocked me after a week. I am committed to no contact forever but the idea of crazy sex on the side sounds nice.
