"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Personal trainer license...so many

Pandora

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I want to get a personal trainers license but there are so many organizations. Which one is the best one to get? I don't want to do hard core training just basic stuff for people.Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Look up Paul Chek. He is Elliot Hulses mentor. deezd old dude. Unreal. I caution you. The global pandemic has killed gyms, mma clubs, and many others. Career changer is fine but you may want to try a different route.
 

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Look up Paul Chek. He is Elliot Hulses mentor. deezd old dude. Unreal. I caution you. The global pandemic has killed gyms, mma clubs, and many others. Career changer is fine but you may want to try a different route.
great advice. Thanks man...i forgot c19 killed those industries.
 

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My Girlfriend was NASM certified for 20 years. Got her degree in Kinesiology, trained and managed gyms and groups of trainers.

Get good at producing live training via Zoom or another video platform. Setup remote payment systems and get clients from all over the country or the world. i have a friend Teaching Pilates this way from freaking West Virginia.
 
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great advice. Thanks man...i forgot c19 killed those industries.
Maybe if you found a means to delivery. A digital product or you had a high profile client who went big time A lister and vouched for you. sadly, even many Chiro, physio, gyms, and mma clubs got wrecked.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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