NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
First, I want your perspective on dating women who you have known for years. In my case, my college roomate married his college girlfriend who happens to have two very attractive friends, one in particular I always liked and one who was sometimes unpleasant towards me. Both girls are best friends.
We have all been friends, or at least more than acquiantances, for probably 5 years or so.
This one girl has always interested me and still intrigues me. I even asked her out once about 5 years ago and she agreed then flaked the next day. I moved on and nothing else ever happened besides chit chat here and there.
I ended up seeing this girl again at my buddies wedding in january. I was with my now ex gf at the wedding. Said hi to her and thats about it.
I see her again just a few weeks later at a parade that my friend invited us to. She seemed to have much more positive body language towards me. Smiling and talking to me more, even though my now ex gf was there again.
HERE IS THE KICKER..
I left my sunglasses at her house during the parade.. Intentionally, so I had an excuse to see her in person again. I drop by her house one day and leave my business card there asking about the glasses. She texts me on my personal cell even though i left my business card with work #. She either still had my cell number from years ago or she got it from my old roomate. Either way we exchanged texts a few times.
When I went to get my sunglasses from her house, she seemed flustered by me being there with just me and her. More positive body language this time. Very talkative, even mentioned me moving in next door because I told her I was moving back near where she lives.
I broke up with my gf of 15 months that same nite.
Finally, I see her again this past weekend at this festival. She is with her friends and once again showed good body language. She even rubbed her bare thighs against mine while she talked to me by the bar. I talked to her for a little while a few times. I would leave and go talk to all the other women there and then go talk to her.
I texted her later that nite with no repsonse. Then again the next day and she responded once and then not again after that.
What is my next move?
We have all been friends, or at least more than acquiantances, for probably 5 years or so.
This one girl has always interested me and still intrigues me. I even asked her out once about 5 years ago and she agreed then flaked the next day. I moved on and nothing else ever happened besides chit chat here and there.
I ended up seeing this girl again at my buddies wedding in january. I was with my now ex gf at the wedding. Said hi to her and thats about it.
I see her again just a few weeks later at a parade that my friend invited us to. She seemed to have much more positive body language towards me. Smiling and talking to me more, even though my now ex gf was there again.
HERE IS THE KICKER..
I left my sunglasses at her house during the parade.. Intentionally, so I had an excuse to see her in person again. I drop by her house one day and leave my business card there asking about the glasses. She texts me on my personal cell even though i left my business card with work #. She either still had my cell number from years ago or she got it from my old roomate. Either way we exchanged texts a few times.
When I went to get my sunglasses from her house, she seemed flustered by me being there with just me and her. More positive body language this time. Very talkative, even mentioned me moving in next door because I told her I was moving back near where she lives.
I broke up with my gf of 15 months that same nite.
Finally, I see her again this past weekend at this festival. She is with her friends and once again showed good body language. She even rubbed her bare thighs against mine while she talked to me by the bar. I talked to her for a little while a few times. I would leave and go talk to all the other women there and then go talk to her.
I texted her later that nite with no repsonse. Then again the next day and she responded once and then not again after that.
What is my next move?