"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Persistence or next?

Reyaj

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As I've gotten older I've really become less patient with playing the "dating" game or dealing with "shvit tests"

Of course anything that comes too easy you won't appreciate as much as something you have to put some work towards. Even still though, you'll only become resentful if you feel you've been strung along.

For me there needs to be indicators of interest and continuity. I won't necessarily next a girl if she cancels a first date and is legit apologetic, but I damn sure will if she does it again without a counter offer. We only have a limited time on this earth to be chasing the wrong tail...

One particular lesson I'll give this forum credit for is that's its easier to find a new plate than try to resurrect one with subpar interest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Suave88

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As I've gotten older I've really become less patient with playing the "dating" game or dealing with "shvit tests"

Of course anything that comes too easy you won't appreciate as much as something you have to put some work towards. Even still though, you'll only become resentful if you feel you've been strung along.

For me there needs to be indicators of interest and continuity. I won't necessarily next a girl if she cancels a first date and is legit apologetic, but I damn sure will if she does it again without a counter offer. We only have a limited time on this earth to be chasing the wrong tail...

One particular lesson I'll give this forum credit for is that's its easier to find a new plate than try to resurrect one with subpar interest.
All I can tell you is shyt testers end up with wrong partner. This is my experience.
There is one key to pass shyt tests and it is to be indifferent.
I am one who hates to kiss ass, but women who lost me, regret it.
Also, not all girls who are quick to hook up are the bad ones.
I don't recommend anyone to chase, being female or male.
 
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