"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Persistence or next?

Reyaj

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As I've gotten older I've really become less patient with playing the "dating" game or dealing with "shvit tests"

Of course anything that comes too easy you won't appreciate as much as something you have to put some work towards. Even still though, you'll only become resentful if you feel you've been strung along.

For me there needs to be indicators of interest and continuity. I won't necessarily next a girl if she cancels a first date and is legit apologetic, but I damn sure will if she does it again without a counter offer. We only have a limited time on this earth to be chasing the wrong tail...

One particular lesson I'll give this forum credit for is that's its easier to find a new plate than try to resurrect one with subpar interest.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Suave88

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As I've gotten older I've really become less patient with playing the "dating" game or dealing with "shvit tests"

Of course anything that comes too easy you won't appreciate as much as something you have to put some work towards. Even still though, you'll only become resentful if you feel you've been strung along.

For me there needs to be indicators of interest and continuity. I won't necessarily next a girl if she cancels a first date and is legit apologetic, but I damn sure will if she does it again without a counter offer. We only have a limited time on this earth to be chasing the wrong tail...

One particular lesson I'll give this forum credit for is that's its easier to find a new plate than try to resurrect one with subpar interest.
All I can tell you is shyt testers end up with wrong partner. This is my experience.
There is one key to pass shyt tests and it is to be indifferent.
I am one who hates to kiss ass, but women who lost me, regret it.
Also, not all girls who are quick to hook up are the bad ones.
I don't recommend anyone to chase, being female or male.
 
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