"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Persistance?

Pimp101

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I need some advice on when and when not to persist. I'm gonna paste in a short myspace approach and I want you guys to tell me if its a good idea to keep pushing or not. I used skip2's spam opener...

Me:
hey whats your msn? you're so beautiful baby :)

Her:
ha ur funi dnt giv out until i no u propa or if ur in da performin arts industry
peace out!

Me:
in case performing in bed doesnt count, names *****, nice to meet you.

you sound like you might be into cinema like me, so what are your favourite flicks? and don't tell me youre one of those harry potter fangirls! how was your weekend?

Her:
ber questions man!
na sori i dnt roll lyk dat
an jus 2keep u on track
ders sum1 in place alredi if u catch my drift
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nighthawk

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I'm not feeling a connection. Lose Skips opener, it stinks.
 

HandyAndy

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Your so beautiful baby? Uhh that wont work with anybody....not even over the internet. Girls get that all the time, your comment wont make a difference with her, why not try having a normal conversation?
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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preforming arts?

get a chick who's a major in english... so she can speak non-retard, and maybe teach you a thing or two also.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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