"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Persistance?

Pimp101

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I need some advice on when and when not to persist. I'm gonna paste in a short myspace approach and I want you guys to tell me if its a good idea to keep pushing or not. I used skip2's spam opener...

Me:
hey whats your msn? you're so beautiful baby :)

Her:
ha ur funi dnt giv out until i no u propa or if ur in da performin arts industry
peace out!

Me:
in case performing in bed doesnt count, names *****, nice to meet you.

you sound like you might be into cinema like me, so what are your favourite flicks? and don't tell me youre one of those harry potter fangirls! how was your weekend?

Her:
ber questions man!
na sori i dnt roll lyk dat
an jus 2keep u on track
ders sum1 in place alredi if u catch my drift
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nighthawk

Master Don Juan
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I'm not feeling a connection. Lose Skips opener, it stinks.
 

HandyAndy

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Your so beautiful baby? Uhh that wont work with anybody....not even over the internet. Girls get that all the time, your comment wont make a difference with her, why not try having a normal conversation?
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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preforming arts?

get a chick who's a major in english... so she can speak non-retard, and maybe teach you a thing or two also.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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