Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Please tell me more about your techniques. This sounds interesting.Originally posted by FrancoPUA
Use "active disinterest" = continue the seduction but without "showing interest". Very often when women tell about something they are only sharing their emotions and they do not mean "business" like usually when a guy is talking.
So there are big chances that she is only "telling" that she is meeting another guy but wouldn´t have anything against you seducing her and having sex with her in spite of that.
I have seduced and f.closed married women and often been in the situation of discussing with them how GREAT their relationship with their husbands actually is - while we were having sex with her.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What the hell do you think she was telling you besides EXPLICITLY stating to you that she doesn't want to see you???Originally posted by Dictatorsaurus
If a girl you recently met tells you she has recently hooked up with a guy she met a few weeks ago, would you simply bow out or continue to show interest through persistence? By persistence I mean by not necessarly demeaning yourself.