Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Please tell me more about your techniques. This sounds interesting.Originally posted by FrancoPUA
Use "active disinterest" = continue the seduction but without "showing interest". Very often when women tell about something they are only sharing their emotions and they do not mean "business" like usually when a guy is talking.
So there are big chances that she is only "telling" that she is meeting another guy but wouldn´t have anything against you seducing her and having sex with her in spite of that.
I have seduced and f.closed married women and often been in the situation of discussing with them how GREAT their relationship with their husbands actually is - while we were having sex with her.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What the hell do you think she was telling you besides EXPLICITLY stating to you that she doesn't want to see you???Originally posted by Dictatorsaurus
If a girl you recently met tells you she has recently hooked up with a guy she met a few weeks ago, would you simply bow out or continue to show interest through persistence? By persistence I mean by not necessarly demeaning yourself.