This question isn't just about girls, it's about all people you meet in general. So say you meet someone, and things go really well, you really hit it off. You get their phone number and a week later you decide to call them to see if they wanna hang out, but they tell you they're busy for the next few days, so you tell them you'll call them back later. You call them back a week later and it's the same story. They're busy again for the next few days. And it just keeps continuing. Sometimes I can't tell if the people just don't like me or if they really are busy. I don't know what to do in this situation, and this seems to happen to me alot. Is there a certain way you should make plans with people to avoid this?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Perpetual Busyness
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