Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Perpetual Busyness

saber101

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This question isn't just about girls, it's about all people you meet in general. So say you meet someone, and things go really well, you really hit it off. You get their phone number and a week later you decide to call them to see if they wanna hang out, but they tell you they're busy for the next few days, so you tell them you'll call them back later. You call them back a week later and it's the same story. They're busy again for the next few days. And it just keeps continuing. Sometimes I can't tell if the people just don't like me or if they really are busy. I don't know what to do in this situation, and this seems to happen to me alot. Is there a certain way you should make plans with people to avoid this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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1) They really are busy and are just calling at the wrong time.

Or

2)They just don't like you.

If you call again and their busy you could say. "Well call me when your not busy and we'll met up." If they don't call back then, f@ck em.
 
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