"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Permission to post thread that will involve race but is a success story

Benjaymin

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It seems like on every forum I go to there is an Asian guy who feels limited by his race and with all the stereotypes against Asian men it is understandable. Well I have a Korean friend who has managed to have success with all races of women and I asked him to share his story with me and he said he will write up his experiences and his success story as an Asian male who has done well.

I lurk on here and seems like there are some bad experiences with race threads and people whining, thread I post will not do that at all. It will share a success story of a Korean guy who has managed to do well for himself.

Would the mods allow this? It won't be a race whining, just a success story of how one guy overcame his limiting beliefs to become a player.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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We'll discuss it in the mods corner. Stand by.
 

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First post? Check.

Mentions race? Check.

Calls attention to himself by directing the thread to the mods? Check.

Hm. I wonder where this is going...
 

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Well you can wonder where it is going or you can let me post it and see where it goes yourself. I will check back tomorrow to see what the mods have said since anything involving race is a touchy subject. The reason I asked is because the last I want to do is take all the time formatting it from my friend and putting it on here only for the thread to be deleted within the hour.

If the mods say yes, I will post it, if they don't allow it then I won't post it.
 

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The consensus of the mods is that since race threads have been a real problem here, we are tightly enforcing the "no race threads" rule.

If you wanted to write the post and submit it to one of the mods through PM, we might allow it in if it has merit.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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