"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It seems like on every forum I go to there is an Asian guy who feels limited by his race and with all the stereotypes against Asian men it is understandable. Well I have a Korean friend who has managed to have success with all races of women and I asked him to share his story with me and he said he will write up his experiences and his success story as an Asian male who has done well.

I lurk on here and seems like there are some bad experiences with race threads and people whining, thread I post will not do that at all. It will share a success story of a Korean guy who has managed to do well for himself.

Would the mods allow this? It won't be a race whining, just a success story of how one guy overcame his limiting beliefs to become a player.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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We'll discuss it in the mods corner. Stand by.
 

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First post? Check.

Mentions race? Check.

Calls attention to himself by directing the thread to the mods? Check.

Hm. I wonder where this is going...
 

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Well you can wonder where it is going or you can let me post it and see where it goes yourself. I will check back tomorrow to see what the mods have said since anything involving race is a touchy subject. The reason I asked is because the last I want to do is take all the time formatting it from my friend and putting it on here only for the thread to be deleted within the hour.

If the mods say yes, I will post it, if they don't allow it then I won't post it.
 

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The consensus of the mods is that since race threads have been a real problem here, we are tightly enforcing the "no race threads" rule.

If you wanted to write the post and submit it to one of the mods through PM, we might allow it in if it has merit.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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