"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Permanent 5 oclock shadow?

KillingTime

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I hate this so much, first off I have to shave about 3 times a day because my beard grows so fast, the problem is I can never get it to go away. After I shave, my face feels completely smooth... no stubble or anything, but I look in the mirror and I still have the black 5 oclock shadow.
Facial hair looks horrible on me so this really sucks, is there anything that can be done about this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tempest

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I have the same problem!!

I don't think there's anything we can do. =(
 

Hot Ice

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I wish I had a five'o shadow!


I don't get facial hair anywhere else than moustache and just little bit under my lips and on mouth-wide section on my chin...

I keep a little-ass goatee there, makes me look a bit older in some people's head. And I like it myself, but more wouldn't hurt.
 

B9

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most women seem to like a 5'o'clock shadow...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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m4a1

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Where do you find the time to shave 3 times a day? Who cares if there's a bit of hair on your face?

I shave about once every 3 or 4 days, and I only shave downwards (so it's not so smooth)


EDIT: LOL, your name is KillingTime, and I was asking you where you found the time to shave, now I get it!!!
 

Phantasmal

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I somewhat have/had the same problem. The little niche i've found that helps me is that I now use a Mach 3 Turbo, a facial moisturizer, use a face wash instead of dry soap, and common shaving cream. I shave entirely against the grain. Make sure your face isn't dry; your shaves will be irritating, not as close, and terrible overall. I wouldn't have even dreamt of shaving against the grain before, but now after moisturizing and stuff, it's perfectly fine. I also have an electric shaver handy in case I need a touch up.

It's not perfect this way, but it's the best i've found.
 
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