"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Permanent 5 oclock shadow?

KillingTime

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I hate this so much, first off I have to shave about 3 times a day because my beard grows so fast, the problem is I can never get it to go away. After I shave, my face feels completely smooth... no stubble or anything, but I look in the mirror and I still have the black 5 oclock shadow.
Facial hair looks horrible on me so this really sucks, is there anything that can be done about this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tempest

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I have the same problem!!

I don't think there's anything we can do. =(
 

Hot Ice

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I wish I had a five'o shadow!


I don't get facial hair anywhere else than moustache and just little bit under my lips and on mouth-wide section on my chin...

I keep a little-ass goatee there, makes me look a bit older in some people's head. And I like it myself, but more wouldn't hurt.
 

B9

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most women seem to like a 5'o'clock shadow...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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m4a1

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Where do you find the time to shave 3 times a day? Who cares if there's a bit of hair on your face?

I shave about once every 3 or 4 days, and I only shave downwards (so it's not so smooth)


EDIT: LOL, your name is KillingTime, and I was asking you where you found the time to shave, now I get it!!!
 

Phantasmal

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I somewhat have/had the same problem. The little niche i've found that helps me is that I now use a Mach 3 Turbo, a facial moisturizer, use a face wash instead of dry soap, and common shaving cream. I shave entirely against the grain. Make sure your face isn't dry; your shaves will be irritating, not as close, and terrible overall. I wouldn't have even dreamt of shaving against the grain before, but now after moisturizing and stuff, it's perfectly fine. I also have an electric shaver handy in case I need a touch up.

It's not perfect this way, but it's the best i've found.
 
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