"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Perkins + Dennys game > Bar game

MillionBillionaire

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Never go home strait after the bar.

These days I make solid connections at diners late night compared to the ADD attention horsing that happens at bars.

The "get to know you" read your horriscop together type game is much more my style than the "retard f boy" PUA promotes.

Hell I barely hold the attention of a 23 year old at the bar but get me at a diner and let me ask, "Is anyone sitting here?" And it is on.

Nobody knows how to hold a solid interesting conversation like I can. These days anyways. And as men, we have to learn how to carry the conversation and make it interesting for the whole table.

So learn about what gets a girl talking.. some it might be their hair, some it might be about travel, some it might be about Demi Lovato..

So here is my tip and acknowledgement to solid get to know you and make us feel good game ... over the F boy retard game PUA promotes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zekko

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Hell I barely hold the attention of a 23 year old at the bar but get me at a diner and let me ask, "Is anyone sitting here?" And it is on.

Nobody knows how to hold a solid interesting conversation like I can.
It's good to know your strengths.
Of course I've also seen tips that say you should only do 20% of the talking, but I don't view that as important. Go with what works for you.
 

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You know, now that I think of it, I rarely go to diners but I have definitely found it extremely easy to talk to girls there.
 

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If you are ever at a diner, or anywhere else for that matter, and there are obnoxious drunks who cause the police to get called, if you have been drinking at all, it is time to leave. Cops were arresting people at my local Dennys at 3 am for the crime of being intoxicated. Everyone got tickets, not just the people who were causing the trouble.
 
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