"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Performance declined and about to be treated

Bowditch

New Member
Joined
May 22, 2014
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
Location
Philadelphia
Hi Gents,

Last week and half I experienced some PE which usually isn’t problematic because in the past I have gotten my hog up again within 30 mins, but on round two on various days with the same woman I even went soft. At 31 I don’t know if this has happened to you guys but it’s a blow to the ego so I decided to go to my doctor. When it comes to sex I came to the conclusion I was not ashamed to take some performance enhancements and I told the doctor the issue. He prescribed me a bottle of 25mg of Zoloft and gave me a sample pack of 30 5mg tablets of Cialis. He told me to take Zoloft daily 25-50 mg for 3 months and pop 5-20 mg of Cialis next time I expect to have sex. I will be spending the weekend with my main plate so I’m wondering if any of you guys have used this method.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Fireballs

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 13, 2008
Messages
573
Reaction score
311
Location
Australia
It happens to most of us as some point and there's a number of legitimate reasons why. If you start to worry about it, it will happen again. Take some Cialis if you need a bit of confidence but if not I wouldn't worry about it.
 

Who Dares Win

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2012
Messages
7,423
Reaction score
5,795
If I were you I would simply tell the girl that some medication Im taking may cause some problems, this way you have an excuse in case of failure which will make you feel more relaxed therefore less prone to such things.

Also keep in mind that stress or temporary problems could decrease sexual perfomances so as they said already dont make a single accident a rule.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
Dude, you need to get your heart checked. ED isn't a Johnson problem, its a heart problem, ie you might have the beginnings of some blockages going on that isn't allowing proper bloodflow to the nether regions.

If you aren't going to the gym and exercising, I would recommend it. That will give you a significant performance boost(testosterone controls both muscle growth and sexual functioning in men). Get you T levels checked, you might need to go on TRT.
 

MOTU

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 29, 2014
Messages
638
Reaction score
72
Location
Houston, TX
^^^^ This. Since I started working out and got back in shape, I can fvck forever. My main plate juiced me three times between Sat midnight and Sunday 9am.
 

SmooveMooves

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2013
Messages
1,441
Reaction score
694
Location
NY
Typical health care industry exploitintg ways to sell prescriptions.

As fireballs said, there are NUMEROUS reasons why you could've had that experience and I guarantee you as young as you are. I'd be willing to bet money you don't truly have ED.

And medication is NOT the solution.

The problem is not that it doesn't help, it's that your body becomes dependent on it.

You follow through with your docs plan and next thing you know you can't get up without it.

And BAM they have someone else who has to continuously pay for meds.

I say use it for a lil while just for a confidence boost and then revert back to natural, I had this same thing happen to me not to long ago and I'm significantly younger than you.

These things happen from time to time, do some research, find out why it happened to you.

Are you stressed? Out of shape? Anxious? Tired? Unfocused?

Fix these issues before chalking it up to "I have ED I need Viagra/Cialis"

There are also NATURAL aphrodisiacs that won't cause dependency, look into those.

Just whatever you do, don't be the Guy who has to plan cialis into every sexual thing and give up spontaneous intimacy.
 

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
MOTU said:
^^^^ This. Since I started working out and got back in shape, I can fvck forever. My main plate juiced me three times between Sat midnight and Sunday 9am.
Think of how you are now and then multiply it by 10 and that's what happens when you are on gear, lol...

you become literally unbelievable---I impressed myself and I was used to absolutely railing chicks from going to the gym
 

Bowditch

New Member
Joined
May 22, 2014
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
Location
Philadelphia
Thanks for the solid advice guys,

I have no plans to get myself hooked on anti depressants, and have yet to take a single dose of it. I will only take the Cialis this weekend for a confidence boost. I have lost 30 lbs in the last 6 months from eating right and running and on Monday I started weight lifting.

I will experiment with this Zoloft/Cialis ****tail this weekend as a temp fix.I will take a small dose of 15 mg Zoloft and 20 mg of Cialis. I will dominate her this weekend and next time we fvck the following week I will be off it to compare.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Big Nuts

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 31, 2013
Messages
278
Reaction score
39
Location
P00napalooza
1. Eliminate fapping to porn.
2. Lift weights, interval training.
3. Lose weight. Estrogen levels increase with increased body fat. T-drops.
4. Eat well, but don't eat too much close to fvcking time as you will shunt blood to your digestive system instead of your c@ck.
5. Minimize alcohol, especially red wine prior to banging.
6. No fat chicks...nothing you can do will fix ED with fat chicks.
 

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
^^^
7) Get T levels checked and see about TRT if you do those other 6 steps and it doesn't respond
 
Top