Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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jcarlos_h

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there's this chick that i like sooo much and she's the most perfect girl i've ever known... and she actually likes me, she told me.. i CAN'T blow this opportunity.... as you might imagine, there are some issues involved: she just broke up with her boyfriend 2 months ago and they had a really long relationship so she still has feelings for him even though they don't talk anymore (so she told me that it wouldn't be fair for me that we had something while she was thinking about the other guy).. but i talk to her everyday and we flirt and everything, so i don't know... what should I do ?? when should I make a move? should I be extra nice all the time till she feels ready to be in another relationship? should i kill the ex-boyfriend? help
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Andromax

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jcarlos_h said:
there's this chick that i like sooo much and she's the most perfect girl i've ever known...
You already lost her,

jcarlos_h said:
and she actually likes me, she told me.. i CAN'T blow this opportunity....
Because you're desperate.

jcarlos_h said:
(so she told me that it wouldn't be fair for me that we had something while she was thinking about the other guy).
This is her letting you know what I just pointed out.

The good news is.....

There are tons of other women in the world, that will actually like you if you get your act together and stop behaving like this.

Do yourself a favor and read the DJ bible. ;) It will all make sense.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Andromax is unfortunately right :S . Since u think she's most perfect girl youve ever known you may be loosing her and even if u get her she will leave you after a short time .. So listen this .. Dont focus only on her .. Dont be depended by her .. Move on get other girls , have fun and when she forgets about him she can be with you .
 

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jcarlos_h said:
so she told me that it wouldn't be fair for me that we had something while she was thinking about the other guy
No no, she just told you: TRY HARDER STUPID...
In other words, she likes you as a friend, but you don't make her feel anything whatsoever in the trend of in love. Whatever you do now, you can't win this anymore, you'll only come over as desperate. Best thing you can do now is stop this ONEITIS cause you'll only get hurt (forget about her, stop seeing her for a while), get to know some other women, and get some experience with seducing women instead of what seems here as entertaining women :down: .
 
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