“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jcarlos_h

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there's this chick that i like sooo much and she's the most perfect girl i've ever known... and she actually likes me, she told me.. i CAN'T blow this opportunity.... as you might imagine, there are some issues involved: she just broke up with her boyfriend 2 months ago and they had a really long relationship so she still has feelings for him even though they don't talk anymore (so she told me that it wouldn't be fair for me that we had something while she was thinking about the other guy).. but i talk to her everyday and we flirt and everything, so i don't know... what should I do ?? when should I make a move? should I be extra nice all the time till she feels ready to be in another relationship? should i kill the ex-boyfriend? help
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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jcarlos_h said:
there's this chick that i like sooo much and she's the most perfect girl i've ever known...
You already lost her,

jcarlos_h said:
and she actually likes me, she told me.. i CAN'T blow this opportunity....
Because you're desperate.

jcarlos_h said:
(so she told me that it wouldn't be fair for me that we had something while she was thinking about the other guy).
This is her letting you know what I just pointed out.

The good news is.....

There are tons of other women in the world, that will actually like you if you get your act together and stop behaving like this.

Do yourself a favor and read the DJ bible. ;) It will all make sense.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Andromax is unfortunately right :S . Since u think she's most perfect girl youve ever known you may be loosing her and even if u get her she will leave you after a short time .. So listen this .. Dont focus only on her .. Dont be depended by her .. Move on get other girls , have fun and when she forgets about him she can be with you .
 

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jcarlos_h said:
so she told me that it wouldn't be fair for me that we had something while she was thinking about the other guy
No no, she just told you: TRY HARDER STUPID...
In other words, she likes you as a friend, but you don't make her feel anything whatsoever in the trend of in love. Whatever you do now, you can't win this anymore, you'll only come over as desperate. Best thing you can do now is stop this ONEITIS cause you'll only get hurt (forget about her, stop seeing her for a while), get to know some other women, and get some experience with seducing women instead of what seems here as entertaining women :down: .
 
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