"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Percent of birth to unwed mothers

everywomanshero

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The cities at bottom mght be good bets to try, or perhaps avoid if you're worried about being raked over the coals for child support.

Rank City %
50-City Average 43.9
1 (best) San Francisco, CA 24.6
2 Seattle, WA 25.0
3 San Jose, CA 26.2
4 Colorado Springs, CO 27.0
5 Honolulu, HI 27.9
6 San Diego, CA 28.2
7 Virginia Beach, VA 28.7
8 Austin, TX 29.0
9 Portland, OR 31.4
10 Dallas, TX 33.8
11 Denver, CO 34.9
12 Mesa, AZ 35.2
13 Charlotte, NC 35.7
14 Omaha, NE 36.7
15 El Paso, TX 37.9
16 San Antonio, TX 38.1
17 Las Vegas, NV 38.2
18 Houston, TX 39.0
19 Sacramento, CA 39.4
20 Oakland, CA 40.5
21 Fort Worth, TX 40.6
22 Jacksonville, FL 40.9
22 Nashville-Davidson, TN 40.9
24 Tulsa, OK 41.7
25 Los Angeles, CA 42.2
26 Tucson, AZ 42.7
27 Long Beach, CA 43.6
28 Minneapolis, MN 43.8
28 Boston, MA 43.8
30 Albuquerque, NM 44.3
31 Columbus, OH 44.4
32 New York, NY 44.9
33 Oklahoma City, OK 45.3
34 Fresno, CA 45.5
35 Kansas City, MO 48.1
36 Indianapolis, IN 48.3
37 Phoenix, AZ 49.4
38 Pittsburgh, PA 50.2
39 Chicago, IL 50.9
40 Miami, FL 52.3
41 Atlanta, GA 54.2
42 District of Columbia 56.5
43 Milwaukee, WI 60.3
44 Philadelphia, PA 62.0
45 Memphis, TN 64.4
46 St. Louis, MO 65.5
47 New Orleans, LA 66.1
48 Baltimore, MD 66.8
49 Cleveland, OH 68.5
50 (worst) Detroit, MI 69.3

Source:
http://www.aecf.org/
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This belongs in the Anything Else forum; it has no relevance here, I believe.

-Bill
 

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Damn. Look at the bottom five! 60-70% children growing up without fathers. What is going to happen to society in the next, say 30 years?
 

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The higher percentage like in the last 10 of this list are in cities filled with Negro women, this list however serves no purpose.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it serves no purpose for a don juan site, but this is anything else and everything interesting is welcome.

are you sure those stats are right? i hardly believe it, since it can't be possible that half of the newborn are from unwed mothers... i don't know well american reality, but here in italy, probably 1 newborn out of 100 hasn't got married parents...
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X

are you sure those stats are right? i hardly believe it, since it can't be possible that half of the newborn are from unwed mothers... i don't know well american reality, but here in italy, probably 1 newborn out of 100 hasn't got married parents...
Life's a little different over here :p
 

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That list is ranked from richest demographic to poorest. Also, a list of cities with the worst crime came out last week. Camden, Detroit, St Louis, Baltimore, and Gary, IN, which is the poor side of Chicago, topped the list. Those cities are at the bottom of the list above. Poverty, crime, and out-of-wedlock births all correlate.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
That list is ranked from richest demographic to poorest. Also, a list of cities with the worst crime came out last week. Camden, Detroit, St Louis, Baltimore, and Gary, IN, which is the poor side of Chicago, topped the list. Those cities are at the bottom of the list above. Poverty, crime, and out-of-wedlock births all correlate.

Originally posted by italostud
Life's a little different over here :p

yes, but i don't think palermo (the mobsters' city), naples and cagliari are any better than baltimore, st louis and gary... maybe they are not as hard to live in as some places in compton, camden and detroit, but i can't believe those stats actually apply...
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
That list is ranked from richest demographic to poorest. Also, a list of cities with the worst crime came out last week. Camden, Detroit, St Louis, Baltimore, and Gary, IN, which is the poor side of Chicago, topped the list. Those cities are at the bottom of the list above. Poverty, crime, and out-of-wedlock births all correlate.
It could be. But this is not very obvious from the list. What is more obvious if the following trend: South and West cities were ranked better. Does it mean somehting?
I guess so.
It means many women in nothern and probably eastern cities have more job opportunities, so they do not care about men and families. They got "ambitions" and feminism.
It appears that jobs and opposrtunities to amke good money are transforming american women into men.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Jay-X
yes, but i don't think palermo (the mobsters' city), naples and cagliari are any better than baltimore, st louis and gary... maybe they are not as hard to live in as some places in compton, camden and detroit, but i can't believe those stats actually apply...
You have to believe. Here is a reason why. Italy has the lowest (or one of the lowest) divorced rate in Europe. US has one of the highest divorce rate in the world. It is just s fact that indirectly supports it.
Also it is not very uncommon for women in US to be single, full of feminism bs and have like 3-4 kids. I sort of doubt you can find something similar in Italy.
 

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The problem is that conservative family values are being replaced by newfound independence.

In the old days, if you got a chick pregnant, you'd be saying "I will marry her and unite the House of Hanover with the House of Mecklenburg in a grand dynastical alliance".

Today it'd be more like "F*ck that b!tch, I hate kids!".


So if you get a chick pregnant, and you hate single moms, then marry her. I know I won't be.
 

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Originally posted by Bill
This belongs in the Anything Else forum; it has no relevance here, I believe.

-Bill
:p

Cute.



Interesting stats.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
That list is ranked from richest demographic to poorest. Also, a list of cities with the worst crime came out last week. Camden, Detroit, St Louis, Baltimore, and Gary, IN, which is the poor side of Chicago, topped the list. Those cities are at the bottom of the list above. Poverty, crime, and out-of-wedlock births all correlate.
Out here in Balmore we also gotz da high STD rate hon!

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