You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Youre probably a dude.cyberlady said:I am female single 33 years from Bitola, Republic of Macedonia, gorgeus blonde with blue eyes, big tits and cute ass. I am romantic person and waiting for prince charming, but they say that prince fell from his horse and the horse arrives instead of the prince. I am very good looking woman and I am looking for the man same good looking as myself, but unfortunately not every man is that handsome. This is why the remark about Looney Toons. I see you write girls have lots of dates, but I will say to you I go out for a date so rarely as rarely I find handsome man. That doesn't mean I do not receive lots of atention! But I would appreciate a man to be concious that he is not for me and not to push too hard - that was all.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
oakraiderz2 said:
No, no, I am girl.:nono:I have a picture in my profile.penkitten said:
I am not looking for a rich guy! Money does not matter to me. All I want is handsome prince like in Walt Disney's Snow White and Seven Dwarves.Gustav Yavo said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sandow said:
You are redheaded, fat and liar!:box:Ken785 said:
How 'bout a PrinceBeavis? No? Didn't think so.cyberlady said:
You are on drugs!:box:PrinceBeavis said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Gustav Yavo said:
PrinceBeavis said:
It is getting redicuous and happened twice but I do care about what people on a net forum do because it all works anyway!Lord Shinra said:
PrinceBeavis I would be glad to get to know you if you are my prince charming.PrinceBeavis said:
I am not here to complain and to pick a fight.That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.