"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ImWithTheDJ

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Stop being a loser and sitting behind your f*cken computer telling people how many "girls" you've bang and how masculine you are.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zorg198

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ImWithTheDJ said:
Stop being a loser and sitting behind your f*cken computer telling people how many "girls" you've bang and how masculine you are.

so you consider yourself a loser too begin here?
 

Geniuskhan

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I disagree friend. That's like saying the artists doesn't read books on his/her craft because they are already artists. I get plenty of women. There's nothing wrong with improving yourself. That's what i see this site as, a self improvement site. Personally I'm glad it's here. I only wish I had found this site in my teens. It would have saved me a lot of heart ache and having to find things out on my own.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maximummax

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I agree with genius khan
Reading bring lots of knowledge
Practice makes you perfect in any field
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zorg198

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ImWithTheDJ said:
Just make sure who you listen to
Dude,

why not listen? i mean there are people here who have experience much than some of us and can give us help ., this is the purpose of this forum.. isn't?
 

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Every time you guys post in a troll thread, I throw a kitten out of a window.
 

SgtSplacker

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I love the psychological/philosophical aspect to this site. I'm honestly satisfied with my pickup skills.
 

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Well, you're correct, sort of. There are mainly two kinds of people who go on this site:
1. Those who are hopeless with women and want basic help.
2. Those who are incredible with women and are looking to hone their skills even further.

I'd say that in terms of skill with women it's a bimodal distribution. There aren't many guys who come here who are just so-so with women.
 

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I'm so-so.... :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ImWithTheDJ said:
Stop being a loser and sitting behind your f*cken computer telling people how many "girls" you've bang and how masculine you are.
What's worse, giving bad advice, or telling off people who give bad advice?

This site is for men to gain consensus - right or wrong, for their own amusement or benefit. I certainly have had success before and after the site so I'm sure many others have. There are some pretenders of course.
 
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coochieman

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Wastin' ma 100th post on a bloody moron. Shame on me.

What surprises me is how much attention we pay to golden fuccks like this dude..... How hard is it to get girls, huh?

Understand this is home for players. Where the real passes advice to the other real for him to become realer and simultaneously, the newbies get into a piece of the action too. That's beautiful.

Sure, lotta wankstars are here! Even the House of God has demons droppin' in.... but, isn't that the best place for him to be if he is ever gonna get saved?

How advisable is it to flaunt your unconventional beliefs[eg. spinnin' plates] to the general public out there? Where else would I be sure of relating with tens of fellow gamers like myself? How many times do you meet other fellows that really really understand the dynamics of juanism and that you're cool with enough to discuss deep sh!t with in reality ? Not so many real out there .

Again, this is home till I'm ultimately grown. Oh sorry, we learn err'day so don't expect that to stop anytime soon.

Let this be the last post as regards to this moron. No time.
 

Alex DeLarge

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Cool post bro. I don't need you to tell me I can't get girls cause I can. Think whatever you want.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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