"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ImWithTheDJ

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Stop being a loser and sitting behind your f*cken computer telling people how many "girls" you've bang and how masculine you are.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zorg198

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ImWithTheDJ said:
Stop being a loser and sitting behind your f*cken computer telling people how many "girls" you've bang and how masculine you are.

so you consider yourself a loser too begin here?
 

Geniuskhan

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I disagree friend. That's like saying the artists doesn't read books on his/her craft because they are already artists. I get plenty of women. There's nothing wrong with improving yourself. That's what i see this site as, a self improvement site. Personally I'm glad it's here. I only wish I had found this site in my teens. It would have saved me a lot of heart ache and having to find things out on my own.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maximummax

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I agree with genius khan
Reading bring lots of knowledge
Practice makes you perfect in any field
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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zorg198

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ImWithTheDJ said:
Just make sure who you listen to
Dude,

why not listen? i mean there are people here who have experience much than some of us and can give us help ., this is the purpose of this forum.. isn't?
 

Iceberg

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Every time you guys post in a troll thread, I throw a kitten out of a window.
 

SgtSplacker

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I love the psychological/philosophical aspect to this site. I'm honestly satisfied with my pickup skills.
 

sighsigh

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Well, you're correct, sort of. There are mainly two kinds of people who go on this site:
1. Those who are hopeless with women and want basic help.
2. Those who are incredible with women and are looking to hone their skills even further.

I'd say that in terms of skill with women it's a bimodal distribution. There aren't many guys who come here who are just so-so with women.
 

Chamber36

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I'm so-so.... :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ImWithTheDJ said:
Stop being a loser and sitting behind your f*cken computer telling people how many "girls" you've bang and how masculine you are.
What's worse, giving bad advice, or telling off people who give bad advice?

This site is for men to gain consensus - right or wrong, for their own amusement or benefit. I certainly have had success before and after the site so I'm sure many others have. There are some pretenders of course.
 
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coochieman

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Wastin' ma 100th post on a bloody moron. Shame on me.

What surprises me is how much attention we pay to golden fuccks like this dude..... How hard is it to get girls, huh?

Understand this is home for players. Where the real passes advice to the other real for him to become realer and simultaneously, the newbies get into a piece of the action too. That's beautiful.

Sure, lotta wankstars are here! Even the House of God has demons droppin' in.... but, isn't that the best place for him to be if he is ever gonna get saved?

How advisable is it to flaunt your unconventional beliefs[eg. spinnin' plates] to the general public out there? Where else would I be sure of relating with tens of fellow gamers like myself? How many times do you meet other fellows that really really understand the dynamics of juanism and that you're cool with enough to discuss deep sh!t with in reality ? Not so many real out there .

Again, this is home till I'm ultimately grown. Oh sorry, we learn err'day so don't expect that to stop anytime soon.

Let this be the last post as regards to this moron. No time.
 

Alex DeLarge

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Cool post bro. I don't need you to tell me I can't get girls cause I can. Think whatever you want.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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