"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ImWithTheDJ

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Stop being a loser and sitting behind your f*cken computer telling people how many "girls" you've bang and how masculine you are.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zorg198

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ImWithTheDJ said:
Stop being a loser and sitting behind your f*cken computer telling people how many "girls" you've bang and how masculine you are.

so you consider yourself a loser too begin here?
 

Geniuskhan

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I disagree friend. That's like saying the artists doesn't read books on his/her craft because they are already artists. I get plenty of women. There's nothing wrong with improving yourself. That's what i see this site as, a self improvement site. Personally I'm glad it's here. I only wish I had found this site in my teens. It would have saved me a lot of heart ache and having to find things out on my own.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maximummax

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I agree with genius khan
Reading bring lots of knowledge
Practice makes you perfect in any field
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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zorg198

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ImWithTheDJ said:
Just make sure who you listen to
Dude,

why not listen? i mean there are people here who have experience much than some of us and can give us help ., this is the purpose of this forum.. isn't?
 

Iceberg

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Every time you guys post in a troll thread, I throw a kitten out of a window.
 

SgtSplacker

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I love the psychological/philosophical aspect to this site. I'm honestly satisfied with my pickup skills.
 

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Well, you're correct, sort of. There are mainly two kinds of people who go on this site:
1. Those who are hopeless with women and want basic help.
2. Those who are incredible with women and are looking to hone their skills even further.

I'd say that in terms of skill with women it's a bimodal distribution. There aren't many guys who come here who are just so-so with women.
 

Chamber36

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I'm so-so.... :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bigneil

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ImWithTheDJ said:
Stop being a loser and sitting behind your f*cken computer telling people how many "girls" you've bang and how masculine you are.
What's worse, giving bad advice, or telling off people who give bad advice?

This site is for men to gain consensus - right or wrong, for their own amusement or benefit. I certainly have had success before and after the site so I'm sure many others have. There are some pretenders of course.
 
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coochieman

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Wastin' ma 100th post on a bloody moron. Shame on me.

What surprises me is how much attention we pay to golden fuccks like this dude..... How hard is it to get girls, huh?

Understand this is home for players. Where the real passes advice to the other real for him to become realer and simultaneously, the newbies get into a piece of the action too. That's beautiful.

Sure, lotta wankstars are here! Even the House of God has demons droppin' in.... but, isn't that the best place for him to be if he is ever gonna get saved?

How advisable is it to flaunt your unconventional beliefs[eg. spinnin' plates] to the general public out there? Where else would I be sure of relating with tens of fellow gamers like myself? How many times do you meet other fellows that really really understand the dynamics of juanism and that you're cool with enough to discuss deep sh!t with in reality ? Not so many real out there .

Again, this is home till I'm ultimately grown. Oh sorry, we learn err'day so don't expect that to stop anytime soon.

Let this be the last post as regards to this moron. No time.
 

Alex DeLarge

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Cool post bro. I don't need you to tell me I can't get girls cause I can. Think whatever you want.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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