"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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People Trolling POF In Your Area Too?

joverby

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I can provide specific examples but I'm pretty sure I've found a few dudes(presumably) who made fake profiles to troll other dudes on POF in my area. Pretty sure it's the same guy, on at least a couple as he did the same style of making said "chick" look really stupid.

I can link specific examples, I messaged a couple of them. One was blatantly a troll so I actually sent a troll message right off the bat myself, just to fvck w/ him.

"Her" interest were drawing pictures of cats, playing with my cats etc...Lots of cat related crazy sh1t. And obviously, it had to be a smokin hot chick.

Another one ended up calling me bro, I called him out on being a dude.

Another thing, they will always flake out or deflect when you ask for the #.

I started using Ninja's POF message(find the thread to reference) and got another one last night. It was pretty obvious. Said they didn't know the difference of how to spell hikeing or hiking but wanted to go to school to be a EEG tech, was just being VERY stupid. When I was being a blatant **** and said I hope it didn't involve any spelling, just gave me a "your a sassy one." Something like that.

Like I said I could give links if you want but just curious if anyone else has noticed this in their respective area.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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